Parents,
We ask a few things from you as well.
1-Please be encouraging and positive with your son. This is a really hard sport, and your son will need your encouragement to be the best he can be. Don't let your son become discouraged and quit. Quitting is not a character trait you want your son to have when something gets hard. Teach him to persevere.
2-Help your son with his choice of making a certain weight class. Middle school wrestling is more lenient when it comes to maintaining a weight than high school, but it is still important. If he chooses to make a certain weight class, help him make healthy choices so he can make that weight class. The team will be counting on him to make that weight.
3-Please, be on time when dropping off your son for a practice, match, or tournament, and when picking him up from practice. The wrestlers are usually ready to be picked up 5-10 minutes after practice. For example, if we end practice at 5:00, your son should be ready by 5:10-5:15.
4-If your son gets a rash or a strange bump, please let me know asap. Encourage your son to wear clean, long sleeved sweatshirts and sweatpants, and to wash his wrestling shoes at least once a week. This will drastically reduce the chance of a skin breakout. He also needs to shower as soon after practice as he can. The showers in the locker room are available, as well.
5-Please make sure your son lets a coach know if he leaves campus during the day. When you sign him out, ask if he has spoken to a coach. Also, call or email if he is absent.
6-Make sure your son knows this is not a recreation sport. This is a school sport governed by the North Carolina High School Athletic Association (NCHSAA) and North Carolina Department of Education, and the commitment to this program needs to be of the highest level. You and your son represent Jacobs Fork Middle School and the Fred T. Foard High School Wrestling Program. The other members of this program are counting on you. We sincerely appreciate you working around our demanding schedule, and making sure your son is with his team!
7-The coaching staff will make the decision on who starts. Preliminary matches are based on what wrestlers the other team has available. We will try to get every wrestler matches throughout the season.
8-Once we start a dual match, please do not come down to the team bench until after the match is over. After the match, we welcome you to come down and be with the team! You are more than welcome to sit with the team during individual tournaments.
9-Support and cheer for our team, but please don't give wrestlers and coaches from the other school a hard time. We know some other fans from other schools may do that to us, but let's be better then that. Let's show some class, and let our wrestling do our talking.
We appreciate the opportunity to coach your son. We believe in being tough, doing the right thing, and working hard. We won't guarantee that your son will ever win a match, but I do guarantee that we will work hard for him, and teach him some valuable life lessons, and if he buys in to our program, he will become a better young man.